WAHAHAH.. i m totally fascinated by this passage from Hanzi's blog!!!!!!!!!!!!
It really sounds like my conversation w my dear... LOL..
Dear.. if u are reading this.....................tells me if u think its familiar!! i meant Scenario 1..Scenario 111.05pm, guy and gal were chatting happily, when guy uncontrollably yawnswrong movegal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??
guy: yeah, tired from work...
gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and sleep lah
guy: ok, you have an early nite too..guy hangs up the phone.
5 min later, phone ringsawaken by the phone rings, guy: hello?gal: ...............guy: who's this?
gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it?
guy (confused): huh? what?
gal: ..............
guy: why? what happened?
gal: you find me very bothersome is it?
guy: bothersome? why you said this??
gal: ..............guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out?
gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to sleep...
guy: b....but, you are the one who ask me to go to sleep...
gal: you already said want to slee p already, what else u want me to say?
guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what for tell me to go sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end?
gal: since when i'm unhappy?
guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will thatdo?
gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not because afraid that i will be unhappy...
in the end, guy spend another ?comforting gal, actual sleep time is 11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep. whatworse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day.
Scenario 2
the right movegal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?
guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired from work. but youhave not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening.
gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go and sleep then (still sounding out)
never fall into the trap and hang up the phoneguy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i give u a call tomorrow morning. let's chat awhile more ok?(tells thereason, and offer make up measure)
gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.
gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than thisguy: so what time you are going to sleep?
gal: not sure, probably a bit later.
guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will be heart pain one hor...
gal (feeling loved): ok lah...
guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must remember to say this impt words, else all effort wasted)
gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao)
guy: ehmm...
gal hang up the phonein the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning call from gal the next day...conclusion 1:girls want feelings of caring. most of the time, girls' logic cannotbe figured out with a reasoning mind.
conclusion 2:say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you more than ½hr of precious time
conclusion 3:when encounter the above situation, must always let the gal hang up the phone first. else it will be disastrous...
conclusion 4:if your girlfriend isn't like the one in this example, then congrats to you mannn! treasure her!but if she does, dont accuse her of being unreasonable. they are just being what they are!
